In addition to the regular way of sex, people may make some new attempts to get more satisfaction and freshness. New forms of sex, such as oral sex, breast sex, and anal sex, have brought more possibilities to couples' intimate moments. But the kind of sex we're going to talk about today is much more special, much more exciting.
Have you ever tried pegging? This is a very special way of sex, but thanks to some movies and television, such as "Weeds" and "Deadpool", this kind of sex gradually entered people's vision. But there are not many people who really have the courage to try this kind of sex, whether you are curious about pegging, or you want to have a passionate pegging sex with your partner, here you can get the answer you want.
What is Pegging?
Simply put, pegging is anal sex, but this may be an oversimplification. One of the most interesting and exciting things about Pegging is that it requires the insertion of a wearable dildo. This anal sex game involves the giver wearing a wearable dildo and then having anal sex with the recipient.
"Pegging" is a term originally coined by sex educator Dan Savage and its original meaning refers to anal sex by a cisgender woman using a wearable dildo on a cisgender man. But with the development of The Times, its gender-specific meaning has gradually been abandoned. Now pegging can refer to any gender using strap-on harnesses for anal games.
Why do people enjoy Pegging?
Pegging can bring great satisfaction to both parties involved in both physical and psychological aspects.
As the recipient, not only can enjoy the novel experience brought by anal sex, but also can experience the physiological pleasure, because people with a penis usually have a very sensitive prostate, through anal sex can be very good to let the prostate be massaged and stimulated, pleasure is pleasure, not only gay men can enjoy the wonderful feelings brought by prostate orgasm. And those who do not have a prostate can also feel the pleasure of being around the anus, because the anus is also rich in nerve endings, and can also enjoy the wonderful feeling of anal sex.
As a giver, more pleasure comes from the psychological side, although wearing dildos can not deliver pleasure, but they provide a new sexual Angle and identity, so that the giver can control the rhythm and depth of penetration. Provide pleasure to your partner while satisfying the giver psychologically
How to try your first Pegging?
1. Talk to your partner about it:
Before trying a new type of sex, it is key to understand your partner's attitude and make sure you have your partner's support and consent before engaging in sexual activity. A sincere and in-depth communication can make you and your partner accept pegging this kind of sex on a psychological level, after ensuring that your body and mind can fully accept this kind of sex, you can really take the first step.
2. Clarify the roles of both parties:
In pegging sex, you need to choose who is the giver and who is the recipient, or you can take turns as either party to play this game, provided that you have exchanged ideas with each other and understand their own identity in pegging.
3. Pick the right strap-on kit:
If you are both interested in trying pegging, then you need to choose an important strap-on kit, for the first time trying pegging, a suitable size dildo can make your first pegging experience better. Dildos that are more than 5 to 6 inches in length are more appropriate, but if you want to explore further, you can choose a size of 7 inches or longer. For the width of the dildo, beginners can choose a dildo between 1.25 and 1.5 inches, or try a dildo 1.75 inches or even larger if you gradually get used to the size of the dildo.
4. Keep clean:
Although the anus can bring pleasure and sexual experience, it is still our excretory organ, so ensuring anal hygiene is very important for both partners. You can use an enema kit and water to clean the inside of the rectum so that any remaining waste is washed away, and then use soap or body wash to clean the area around the anus. Simple washing can keep the anus in a good clean condition. At this time, you can also disinfect the dildo with soapy water to improve safety.
5. Prepare your body:
After cleaning the anus, although the body is clean enough, but your body is not into the state of sex, at this time direct anal sex may bring discomfort or make people feel nervous, some foreplay can be a good way to help you get into the state, first use your fingers or a small anal plug to relax the anus. In a relaxed state, the recipient is better able to experience pleasure around the anus.
6. Enough lubrication:
the anus does not secrete natural lubrication like the vagina, so enough lubricant is an important condition for pegging smoothly. Water-soluble lubricants are easy to clean, but the water in this lubricant is volatile, so it may become dry or sticky during long-term sexual intercourse. If you want to have prolonged anal sex, it is also a good choice to use silicon-based lubricants, which are more suitable for prolonged anal sex.
7.Aftercare:
After pegging is finished, aftercare is also an important part, you can wash each other's body, hug and rest together, watch TV, or chat together to get you out of the intense sex.
Some comments from people who have experienced Pegging:
K,25: As a lesbian, I often fantasize about having a penis, I am really curious about what it is like to have a penis, pegging this way of sex satisfies my fantasy, like a dream.
C,30: My wife and I have been married for many years, the conventional sex has made us feel a little bored, a chance, my wife and I tried pegging, just like opening the door to a new world.
H,28: I didn't know how it would feel before I tried it, but after the first try, I recommend that everyone give it a try, really.
M,34: It was quite a novelty, a bit strange at first, but when I really relaxed, I started to understand why people like to do it.
Final words
Overall, pegging is an exciting way to play and well worth trying. If your partner is willing to try this fun way of sex with you, hopefully our tutorial will help you, well, it's time to unlock a new way of sex.
