I have to say that humans are endlessly creative when it comes to sexual activities, and Facesit is the best proof of this. I'm not sure if you have any idea about this term, but it is creating a renaissance in intimate contact. The hashtag #FaceSitting has been viewed over a million times on TikTok, and people seem to be interested in it. In this article, we will tell you all about Face sit and give you some tips on how to do it. Maybe it will bring you and your partner closer to intimacy.
What is Facesit
As you can probably guess from the word, yes, it is exactly what you think it means, sitting on someone's face. It usually refers to someone (usually a cisgender or feminine woman with a vulva) sitting on the face of a partner who is lying on their back, with their genitals in contact with their mouth. It is a way to receive or give oral sex, and it sounds strange, but it can give the recipient a mind-blowing orgasm. Face sitting has become a popular sex position. If you are interested, you can try it with your partner.
Your Ancestors Probably Sat on Someone 's Face at Some Point
Although the term "facesitting" appeared relatively late, the act itself has existed in various forms throughout history. Perhaps your ancestors knew how to enjoy sex better than you do. This is not made up, but has historical basis. However, it may be a little different from what you think. It originated from Eastern culture. But in our stereotype, Asians are more conservative and it seems unlikely that such an open sexual culture can be produced. However, this is the case. In the ancient Indian Kama Sutra and Japanese erotic paintings, dominant postures similar to facesitting are sometimes shown.
And in the Victorian era, the "Queen's Stool" was invented. This was a chair with holes in it where a woman would sit, exposing her pubic area, while her partner would lie underneath and pleasure her.
Why Facesit Is Also Referred to as “Queening”
Facesitting is sometimes called queening or kinging, depending on who is on top. Technically, both men and women can squat on their partner's face , but the reality is that women are the majority, especially in the BDSM community, and many men are willing to serve women sexually, so more and more people prefer this to be the exclusive right of the queen, which also gives face sitting some power dynamics. Don't worry too much, any gender and any sexual orientation can do this wonderful action. Sit on their face and enjoy it!
Why do People Like Sitting on Faces
People love Facesit for many reasons. In terms of physical sensation and comfort, this sex position can bring extreme stimulation to both parties. The person sitting on top can enjoy the pleasure of being completely exposed and in control, while the person sitting on the bottom often experiences a higher sexual desire due to the close contact, strong stimulation and concentrated senses.
But the core appeal of facesitting is power play. I prefer to classify this sexual behavior as a broad category of kink because it carries strong psychological implications, especially related to dominance and submission, that is, the dominant person is on top and the submissive person is on the bottom. Many people enjoy facesitting as an erotic power game, in which the partner on top feels empowered and in control, while the partner on the bottom may derive pleasure from submission and complete focus on their partner's pleasure.
How to Practice Face Sitting?
Preparing for Face Sitting
Before you begin, a brief conversation is in order. Because facesitting can involve power dynamics or physical pressure, consent and safety for both parties should be taken seriously. Have a frank, open conversation to ensure both parties understand what facesitting involves, and you can lay out your expectations for this behavior. Make it clear to the other person what you want and what you don't want.
Setting a safe word is essential for kink play, but in facesit, the person on the bottom cannot speak, and the safe word does not seem to work. Therefore, you need to agree on physical actions, such as if the person on the bottom feels short of breath, you can tap the person on the top three times on the thigh to tell her that it's time to give you some fresh air.
Get in Facesit Position
First, the partner on the bottom should lie on their back on the bed or floor. If you are the queen, you can kneel and straddle your partner's face, but be careful to use your thighs to let your vagina hover over his mouth, rather than sitting completely on his face. This will restrict his breathing and is very dangerous. It doesn't matter which side you are in, as long as you are comfortable. Once you are positioned, your partner on the bottom can start to taste your vagina as usual.
5 Tips for Sitting on Face
Switch positions : Try swapping positions so both parties experience the feeling of being on top and on the bottom at the same time.
Try getting down on one knee : For those trying face-sitting for the first time, getting down on one knee is the perfect introduction to the pose, allowing you to experience the stimulation while maintaining the right amount of pressure.
Rubbing : If you're the one applying the pressure, you can twist your waist back and forth and rub your vagina against his face with your partner's consent. It may sound a little messy, but it's definitely exciting.
Introduce additional stimulation : If you want to add some extra stimulation, consider introducing sex toys, such as vibrators or dildos. In addition, this position is also very suitable for threesomes and group sex.
Maintain good hygiene : Any sexual activity that involves oral contact with genitals should be done cleanly, both for the person providing the service and for your own health.
