If you and your partner have gone through the honeymoon phase, then your desire will be lower and you won't have the passion and spark that you once had. This is normal and something most couples experience, but the good news is that it is entirely possible to improve the situation, rekindle the spark in each other and build anticipation.
1. Send Erotic Text Messages
Erotic text messages can quickly turn each other on and build excitement and anticipation for sex. You can send your partner erotic, dirty words or sexy photos. Whatever you choose, it's a way to get ignite the spark and passion for each other, and it can be a great way to mobilize each other even when you and your partner aren't together.
2. Experiment with sexual fantasies
Almost everyone has sexual fantasies, if you think your sex life is feeling boring and stuck in a routine these days. Sexual fantasies are a great breakthrough to add interest and freshness to your bedroom. Talking about sexual fantasies with your partner can also increase intimacy, and you don't have to feel worried about it - it's an opportunity to connect with your partner on a deeper level and learn about your partner's deeper desires. And if your partner is interested in your sexual fantasies, you can also bring it into real life.
3. Dating
Dating can help you rediscover the feelings you once had, and it's a great way to enhance your emotions and create shared memories. It's a great way to bond and create memories together, and it's a great way to become more intimate with each other and try out things you like and want to do, such as eating good food, cooking dinner together, going to music festivals, skiing, and so on.
4. Prepare surprises for your partner
Creating new surprises and small gifts for your partner in your daily life can express your love and thoughtfulness and create more romantic memories. Gifts don't need to be expensive, simple ones can also express your heart well, such as chocolates, cakes, flowers, handmade cookies or sexy gifts.
5. Create a sexy atmosphere
A sexy atmosphere can enhance mutual desire and ignite a spark in each other. If you want to create a sexy atmosphere, first of all, keep the bedroom clean and tidy. Add a sexy atmosphere by lighting scented candles, playing a sexy playlist, dimming the lights in the bedroom or adding ambient lighting.
6. Sex toys
Sex toys can add more excitement and freshness to the bedroom and enhance your sexual experience. And nowadays, sex toys come in a variety of types, sizes, colors and functions to meet your different needs and desires.
If you want to add new excitement to the bedroom and enhance your mutual sexual satisfaction, the rose toy is well worth it. Not only because it's small, lightweight and easy to maneuver and angle for better stimulation. And the dual stimulation of suction and vibration further amplifies the stimulation sensation. And rose toy is very beautiful, you can put it in the room as ornaments.
7. Try new things
In a long term relationship, keeping things fresh is the secret to maintaining a long term relationship. New things can help you break out of your boring, routine sex life and ignite a new sense of desire and excitement. Sometimes all it takes is a small change to rekindle the spark in each other, such as changing your sexual positions, switching up the sex scene, trying new sexual activities, role-playing, BDSM etc.
8. Be alone with your partner
In a long term relationship, due to busy work schedules, family and other factors, there can be a lack of communication and alone time between us and our partners. Spending time alone with your partner can re-establish a beautiful relationship, spend happy time together, and not only help to improve the relationship, but also create beautiful memories.
9. Focus on foreplay
Foreplay is an important part of sexual fulfillment, whether it's kissing, cuddling or touching, it can increase your intimacy and anticipation of sex. Foreplay is also an important step in promoting sexual arousal, helping to reduce discomfort and pain caused by friction. By emphasizing the role of foreplay, you can incorporate it into your daily life and make sex more fun.
10. Sexy Lingerie
Sexy lingerie can not only ignite mutual desire and passion, but also better show your sexiness and confidence. Sexy lingerie can add a little sexy and adventurous element to your bedroom. For example, wear lingerie under your jacket to surprise your partner and flirt with them, you can also take sexy photos and send them to your partner or role play in sexy lingerie.
