There are a wide variety of sex toys on the market today, and picking the best one for you from them can be overwhelming. For example, vibrators, dildos, wands, anal plugs, dual head stimulators, etc. How do you find the right toy for you that will excite you and fit your body?
Whether you're looking to buy your first sex toy or want to expand your collection. This article will be able to give you new inspiration and help you find toys that turn you on and fit your body.
1. Know your body
Before picking out a sex toy, find out what type of stimulation you like, e.g. external or internal stimulation, whether you prefer a mix of stimulation, or special sensations such as sucking, temperature play etc.
Knowing what kind of stimulation you like can help you narrow down your choices and find your favorite type of toy more accurately.
2. If you want to try external stimulation
If you like external stimulation, then you'll love suction toys and vibrators. They can bring you pleasurable sensations, help you save energy and even free your hands.
l Clitoral Vibrator: Ideal for people who like focused, powerful vibrations that provide intense stimulation.
l Rose Toy: Using the technology of air pulsation, they provide an oral sex-like sensation and are loved by many users.
l Bullet Vibrator: The Bullet Vibrator is small in size but provides powerful vibrations and stimulation sensations, perfect for users who like precision.
l Wands: with a large stimulation surface, they can provide a deep sensation of stimulation. There can be a wider range of use, you can use it on your breasts, inner thighs, genital area or other erogenous zones, and it can also relax your muscles.
3. Internal Stimulation
If you prefer internal stimulation, then the following types of toys are perfect for you.
l Dildos: come in a variety of colors, shapes, and sizes to meet your different needs.
l G-spot Vibrator: Usually this type of sex toy is curved and has different angles, which makes it very easy to stimulate the G-spot.
l Rabbit Vibrator: it provides both internal and external stimulation and is the perfect sex toy if you like to mix stimulation.
Please note that if you don't know the right size for you, you can explore it with your fingers and feel the size that makes you comfortable and pleasurable. If you're not sure, start with a smaller size and work your way up, this will avoid discomfort or getting yourself hurt.
4. The Best Anal Toys for Beginners
Some people feel inhibited about anal exploration, but it can really add more pleasure and fun to sex. The right sex toy may bring pleasure that you didn't expect. If you're a novice, start slowly and use plenty of lubricant.
Best anal toys for beginners:
Small anal plugs - great for first-time users, especially with a flared base for safety.
Prostate massagers - great for prostate sufferers who want deep internal pleasure.
Anal beads - they gradually increase in size to help ease you into the experience.
PRO TIP Always choose an anal toy with a base or handle to ensure safety.
5. If you want hands-free fun
Want to have fun on the go or share control with your partner? App-controlled and wearable toys allow you to have fun with your hands free.
Best hands-free sex toys:
Wearable Panty Vibrator - slip it inside your underwear and let the fun begin.
Remote controlled sex toys - great for one or two player play, even from a distance.
Suction cup toys (like the Rose Toy) - great for intense, hands-free stimulation.
PRO TIP: Make sure toys are quiet if you plan to use them in public!
6. Choose toys that are not harmful to your body
Not all sex toys are created equal. Always choose toys made from quality, body-safe materials to avoid irritation or infection.
Safe sex toy materials:
Silicone - Non-porous, hypoallergenic, easy to clean. Glass- Harmless to the body, smooth and great for temperature play. Stainless Steel- Durable, heavyweight and can be heated or cooled.
Avoid: Jelly, rubber or PVC toys that contain phthalates as they can be harmful to your body.
7. Don't forget lubrication and aftercare
No matter what toy you choose, lubricants are your best friend.
Which lubricant should I use?
Water-based lubricant - safe for all toys and easy to clean.
Silicone-based lubricant - lasts longer, but can damage silicone toys.
Oil-based lubricant - great for solo use, but not safe to use with condoms.
After using a toy, clean it properly with warm water and a mild, body-safe toy cleaner to keep it fresh and germ-free.
